Maybe it’s just me but I rather be hurt by somebody else than to hurt others. To be told your the reason for someone’s sadness really is a punch in the face. Especially if you were oblivious about it and didn’t even notice what you were doing was hurtful in the first place. I always try to be a good-natured person no matter what the circumstances are. Even if I’m annoyed or upset I’ll still try to keep that cheerful attitude and be kind to everyone. Even so, it was literally a smack in the face when you told me you were hurt because of me. I guess sometimes jokes can go a little too far, I know that. There’s been many times where people are just playing around not meaning what they say but I take it to heart anyways because a person could only tolerate so much. I apologize sincerely and hope you won’t misunderstand my actions again.